When Sympathy Turns Demeaning, Part 1: For, Not With

September 21st, 2010 § 13 comments § permalink

This is Part One of a Three-Part Series.

Over the past couple of years that this blog has been in existence, one of the hottest topics has been Short-Term Missions.  Every time it’s been brought up, the blog gets so many comments.  I’ve commented about it on several other blogs that have discussed the topic, and this blog still gets so many clickbacks from those other blog comments, some of which are now several years old.

Take out the financial arguments against Short-Term missions (which I still think can be valid depending upon the circumstance, but that’s another post for another day) and you’re still left with the question that no one appears to be asking: what is the effect on people, both emotionally and spiritually? And in that question “people” refers to those native to the mission field and the missionaries that serve, whether long- or short-term.

When we were in our fact-finding mode before entering our field, we had encouraged the national Christians to be open with us about what works here and what doesn’t.  One Christian man stated with pain, “Who are these missionary people?  They just show up out of nowhere, from a church we’ve never heard of, having already decided what they’re going to do and then run around barking orders.  We didn’t ask them to come over.  What makes them think that our churches need their help?  Then, when we’re just getting to know them, they decide they can’t handle things here and disappear without even a goodbye, never to be heard from again.”  His face was contorted with frustration, and since then he’s become understandably suspicious and hostile towards American missionaries.

At that point, we believed him, yet it was difficult for us to fully appreciate his stance–until we were on the receiving end as long-term missionaries.  » Read the rest of this entry «

The Recipe for Failure

September 17th, 2010 § 0 comments § permalink

“Christian workers fail because they place their desire for their own holiness above their desire to know God. ‘Don’t ask me to be confronted with the strong reality of redemption on behalf of the filth of human life surrounding me today; what I want is anything God can do for me to make me more desirable in my own eyes.’ To talk that way is a sign that the reality of the gospel of God has not begun to touch me. There is no reckless abandon to God in that. God cannot deliver me while my interest is merely in my own character.”
Oswald Chambers, “My Utmost For His Highest,” January 31

From the Missionary Blogosphere

September 14th, 2010 § 0 comments § permalink

Is missions more than just dropping “Evangelism Bombs”?

Culture shock in a mission field church.

Missions Misunderstood has started a series calling for a New Missiology.

Another series from The Upstream Collective with perspective on the good and bad of short-term mission trips.

A poignant description on being a Third Culture Kid.


What Are You Doing There? Justifying Your Call

September 8th, 2010 § 15 comments § permalink

From the minute we started fundraising in the States years ago, and even up to the present, the first question we’re asked as missionaries is, “Why did you become a missionary to [our mission field country in Western Europe]?”

Most of the time, the query comes from a Christian, both native and international.  It’s an odd question, because as stated above it’s really open to interpretation for the answer they’re looking for.  I’m never sure if they’re looking for:

  • Detail in how God placed a call on our lives for this country (that answer would take too long)
  • Explanation that our lineage traces back to here (it does not) or that we were MKs here (no)
  • Information about the desperate spiritual need in our country (there actually is huge need, but I believe the need is pressing in countries all over this world)
  • Admission that we’re “trying to figure things out before returning to the U.S.”, “burning time”, or “padding the resume” (again, we’re not, but I’ve actually had such admissions from other missionaries here)

So our retort is always, “ God.”  Not to be snarky or even difficult, but because it’s true.  Really true.  There’s no earthly explanation as to why two Californians with no link to this country or background in missions ministry would dump everything in the States to do this long-term.  It doesn’t make a bit of sense, I realise this.  But it is what it is.  And many seem to think this is not the right answer. » Read the rest of this entry «

Because the Greatest Risk in Life is Not Taking One

September 2nd, 2010 § 4 comments § permalink

“Unless there is the element of extreme risk in our exploits for God, there is no need for faith.”
- Hudson Taylor

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